Friday, June 24, 2022

Girls Camp at Dillon Beach

(From the testimony I shared at church the Sunday after girls camp)

I’ve experienced church camp from so many different angles this year. As the parent sending her son to Bountiful and praying that someone notices him, that he is touched by the spirit and feels loved. As the wife sending her husband hoping that he has a wonderful time and that logistically I can figure everything out at home. As the leader, planning activities and messages with each of our eight girls in mind hoping and praying that they feel the love I have for them which is literally overflowing from my heart. And I also experienced camp this year as a participant, who like others was nervous to do some things and excited to do others but held tight to my fellow campers, and the Lord, and had amazing experiences. 

When planning our first ever ward girls camp, I was immediately worried that it somehow wouldn’t measure up to stake girls camp where there are dozens of leaders and staff, where everything has worked like clockwork for decades, where there are at least 100 girls to meet and befriend instead of our ward’s eight. Looking back on it now, I see that I was learning my first lesson from this year’s theme. Proverbs 3:5-6: Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding, In every way acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths. 

 Sister Bonnie Cordon says, “When we spiritually lean to our own understanding we lean away from the Savior. If we lean, we are not centered, if we are not balanced, we are not focused on Christ.”  

 My understanding said that our group was too small, that our ideas were too different, that we would try and maybe fail to make a successful ward girls camp that rivaled the cherished stake experience. But throughout the whole process of planning and packing and “camping” (in quotes because we utilized my preferred method of camping—staying at a beach house), I felt nothing but absolute and total peace. I was excited and I know that we were led on High through the whole process. At the end of our trip the girls were begging for just a few more days and Meghan and I admitted between laughs that we are going to have a big hill to climb in a couple of years if we want to come close to the magic of this ward camp experience.

You’ve heard quite a few experiences from the girls about what our girls camp was all about, and I think my favorite thing about it was that we effortlessly learned lessons and felt the spirit while also laughing, being silly and adventuring. We broke up our theme scripture into four parts and each day we had a leader lesson and a YCL lesson on the theme and then a big activity that complimented the theme. We hiked to a lighthouse, went ziplining, went horseback riding with ocean views, had the best clam chowder California has to offer and ended the week with a trip to do baptisms at the temple.  

  •        I will never forget Meagen laughing herself and our whole group to tears while applying make-up on one of our girls. 
  • ·      Or when I asked Kenzie why she didn’t ride horses at her grandparents house and she accidentally said, “I don’t like you.” I’m hoping she meant to say, I don’t like to. 
  • ·     I’m still giggling about Ruby, who was the most nervous of the bunch to get on a horse and got placed on the most unruly of the bunch who didn’t listen and was eating everything and kept going off trail and she’d yell at him, “Bruh, bruh, stop being a monster!”
  • ·       I’ll also never forget when I asked the older girls to pose for a picture on the top of the ropes course and told them, “You’re being so obedient” and somehow they thought I said, “You’re so obese!” Had to really explain myself over that one!

 There were also moments that were so touching that I know I’ll never forget, 

  •  ·      like John Trumbull, who came as the priesthood representative and I really didn’t know what to expect other than him helping us move things and start a fire, and he exceeded every expectation that I had. Camp wouldn’t have been complete without Papa John, and I was so grateful for the insight he had, the times he received revelation for the girls and taught principles meant just for them and took all the amazing pictures of our experience. 
  • ·      I was also so impressed by Ella Ramey and her parents sacrificing so much time and energy to drive her to and from Dillon Beach THREE TIMES because she had dance recitals in Sacramento but still wanted to experience the magic of camp. The first time she left I kept searching the beach house, feeling like something was wrong before realizing that Ella was gone, and camp wasn’t complete without her. 
  • ·      Or there was Elsie MacDonald, who saw the most magnificent sunset on our last evening of camp and while we were all taking pictures and marveling, she said, “Heather, I see that sunset and I feel like I need to acknowledge God like the scripture this morning says.” 
  • ·      And Ella Salazar, who pulled up to the Oakland temple on our last day and gasped, “What is this?” She had never seen a temple as magnificent as that one, and it was so special to experience that place through her eyes, and all the other young women. The scripture ends with, “And He shall direct Thy paths” and I’m so grateful that He directed us to that place on the last day. 

 I know it sounds silly to say, but I have a testimony of girls camp and boys camp and church camps in general. I am so grateful that our church has a program to bring the youth together, because there is strength in numbers whether it’s the hundreds at a stake camp or ten at a ward camp. I love our Heavenly Parents and our Savior and I know that they love us and our youth. The older girls especially learned these lessons. They are making big decisions in their life and it was beautiful to watch them feel seen on High. 














































Friday, June 10, 2022

Cora's Birthday Interview

I fear Cora will always and forever be celebrating her birthday with last-day-of-school festivities but so far none of us seem to mind the nonstop party during the first week of June! Cora continues to be a fairy princess in her own kingdom and watching her do life is just about the most entertaining show that has ever existed. She is creative and kind and loves to play and explore and make believe her way through the day. She loves Barbies and American Girl Dolls, loves the podcast "Greeking Out", likes to watch Descendants and Zombies and The Thundermans and gets so tired of watching baseball all the time. She is taking a break from dance and no longer wants to do soccer but just last week said, "Mama, I found my new sport. Basketball, just like you!" and then tipped her head to the side and smiled that naughty and angelic smirk that I honestly fall for every time. So, basketball it is! I know that I smother her with attention and adoration and I spoil her way too much (because on what planet would I be carrying my older children around when they were six?!) but what can I say, she's my baby. I love you Corabelle. Happy birthday precious girl. 



Another mother leaned over to me during their little graduation ceremony and said, "You've done this so many times, it probably doesn't even affect you anymore." and I was like, "It might make me weepier than the rest tbh because I have done this so many times before and I know how quickly time is going to pass." I can't believe my baby girl is done with kindergarten. 


Strawberries and yogurt for breakfast with orange juice, all of her favorites.




A birthday piƱata after Kai's baseball game!


One of our dear friends made this cake for Cora and not only was it beautiful and perfect and amazing but it was SO DELICIOUS!!! I can't get over how kind it was for her to offer to make this and how grateful I was that Cora had the magical Barbie cake she wanted on her birthday. 




Tinkerbell randomly showed up for Cora's birthday and I couldn't believe it. So fun, right?!


BIRTHDAY INTERVIEW:


What is your favorite...


Color:
  Orange

Food:   Strawberries

Game:   Candyland

Book:  The Penderwicks.

Toy:  Barbies

Treat:  This is a really hard decision, right Mom? Hmm…what’s those suckers but theres’a a big ball on the top? Oh yeah, lollipops! 

Song:  Jiggle Jiggle

Thing to learn about:  Math

Animal:   Dog

TV show:  The Thundermans

Thing to wear:  Shorts and a t-shirt

Holiday:  Christmas

What do you want to be when you grow up?  A singer

If someone was being mean to your brother or sister, what would you do?  I would say, “Please stop!”

 

Who is your best friend?  I don’t have one, I have lots of best friends! Like Audrey. Well, Audrey is probably just my best friend.

 

What is something you want to learn to do this year?  English. Or maybe a new language.

 

What is something that you are really good at?  Doing the monkey bars

 

If you had a million dollars, what would you buy? Still a playhouse

 

If you were an animal, what would you be?  A dog.

  

What do you want someone to invent? A water slide park 

 

If you could have a magic power, what would it be?  Helping the family, just doing whatever they said to do.

 

How many kids do you want to have when you grow up and get married?  7!

 

What kind of house would you like to live in: an igloo, a tree house, a castle, a cave, or our house? Our house.

 

Who is the cutest boy in the whole world? My Dad

 

Where do you want to go on your mission?  What’s that place that you wanted to go to? Spain. Ok, I want to go to Spain.

 

What's your favorite scripture story?  The one about the fish and bread.